My boys are good helpers. Over the years, they’ve helped me do all sorts of useful things. They’ve helped me pull flowers from the garden so the weeds would have a chance to grow. They’ve helped me shovel snow onto the driveway and sidewalks so everything would look uniformly nice and white, without any ugly gray splotches of bare concrete.
Lately, they’ve begun to help me make breakfast. In this they make themselves especially useful by allowing me to practice my early morning peacekeeping skills when the inevitable fight over who gets to crack the pancake egg breaks out.
I don’t know how I would manage my daily toils without these three most handy boys.
Up until now they have swung into action upon seeing me prepare to undertake some task they know stands beyond my power to complete unaided. “Daddy’s getting out the garden hose? He doesn’t know how to drench himself from head to toe. We’ll show him how to do it.”
This week, Big Man took his helpfulness to higher level. He began helping me with the yard work when I’m not even home. One afternoon, while I was at work, he got a rake and started to be helpful on his own. Daddy spent lots of time raking stuff before the snow; now that the snow is gone, it’s time to rake stuff some more.
Since the lawn did not have much rake-able material on it, it certainly would be good to put some there.
My wife sent me this picture, with the caption, “I’m helping Daddy,” which I don’t doubt is exactly what he told her.
By the time I got home, he’d gotten Buster involved in the helping. Together, they’d done a wonderful job of amassing piles of twigs, leaves, and other sundry bits of nature unhealthy to the mower. These piles they raked from under shrubbery and pine trees into the middle of the lawn. Out of the shadows and into the light, I could now fully appreciate this marvelous collection of nature’s discarded bounty. No doubt, I will appreciate them even more at the first lawn mowing of spring.
It was a fantastic surprise to come home to. They were proud of themselves, and in spite of the imminent lawn mower repairs, I am proud of them too. They are becoming responsible young men, in their own roundabout ways.
I didn’t have the heart to tidy the lawn afterward. I’m kind of hoping a big wind will come up and blow all that stuff back under the trees before real spring hits and I have to begin actively maintaining the yard.
Then again, March can be relied upon for one good snow storm. Maybe they’ll throw all that stuff into the driveway when they are shoveling the lawn.
This is adorable! You could always just give them a bag to gather all of stuff in – saves you repairing the lawn more or getting a flat tire when they shovel it into the driveway after that snow storm in March!
If I had a special tool that would pick stuff up and put it into bags, that would work. But they’re not going pick things up with their hands; that’s work for the unskilled laborers, like Daddy.
How precious. Here’s hoping a lawn shoveling will be in the near future.
I could do without it.
Love it! My kids have stepped up massively when I was working all through January and they still stick to what they took on. It makes a massive difference.
The more my boys step up, the more work I find myself doing.
Hahaha… yeah… I kind of find myself cleaning up after my kids after they did the things they do because they believe it will help me. But hey, they will learn and we will get there and one day, when they do everything we might miss looking after them.
We might miss it, but we won’t know until we try it.
If only my kids could be this helpful but alas they’re teenagers and I suppose I should be thankful for the mere fact that they get out of bed on a weekend…
They help you clean out the fridge, don’t they?
I’m laughing out loud, Scott. This is another precious story and it is so funny because we all know it is true. The mental logic of some youngins surpasses anything anyone could make up. Too funny!! LOL
Everything in world makes perfect sense to them.
What a shame that does not hold true for adults.
We grow out of things making sense.